love -- unconditional

we feel at times (or always ) that we r better human beings than others.but time proves u r wrong at times. still it is not possible for us to realise our mistakes as our opinion on ourselves is formed by years together and from the good words our close ones give us from child hood.
the truth shud be accepted and corrected when we realise the matter ourselves. if not our growth stops then and there.
we shud ask ourselves if we love others only for our sake or not. 99 % we love others for our happiness and profit. this is conditional love . when there occures unconditional love GOD appears there . but is it possible for us to have unconditional love to any one .we have to think over it .

gods on earth

doctors r supposed to be gods fallen on earth. to a certain extend that is the truth.

yesterday my friend's husband had an accident and he was taken to a hospital nearby. we rushed to the place to see him in terrible pain .the concerned doctor who is an md in ortho told us he will arrange an ambulance and take him to a nearby private hospital and there he will do a surgery on his leg which should be done immediately . we agreed and the doctor seemed so happy .in the mean time my friends son who is working in another hospital ran to the site and understood the condition of his father is not that good. so we decided to take him to the bone and joint hospital which has a good reputation on this line. we requested the doctor to arrange an ambulance to take him to the hospital which the so called dr god rejected saying that it is not their hospitals responsibility to give us a number to call an ambulance.it took another two hours for us to get another ambulance from outside to take him to the bone and joint hospital . and there he is in good care now .
i couldnt even have a good sleep yesterday as the whole night i was thinking y on earth the parents of the so called dr god had given him birth to this world . is there any use of him living on this earth. pity on him .

4 the youth

in my teenage i was wondering y people always talk about generation gap(which i never knew it ever existed).i always felt i was a good mother or a good parent.but now in this old age i realise there really exist the generation gap between me and my children . i never understand my children's views which i feel is not right and they find it difficult to understand my point of view.if any body can help please advise.