Real friends are the ones who do not interfere too much in others life. You call a person for the first time, no reply, the second time , no reply, or they say , pls I am busy now, when free, I will call u back. Pls leave them to their own destiny , if u feel they can manage it themselves.
This approach is so genuine that u shudn't interfere too much and trouble them to know what is going on there. Some people r so curious , they come directly to the house and wait until we come back from our work or any emergency, especially to know , y u dint answer the calls immediately.
Life is so complicated , that we do not like to discuss very silly matters with each and every person we meet. Problems we sort it out ourselves, but others want to know , y u did in this way or that way.
If at all they r genuine in their approach no one is going to escape from them.We appreciate there interest. But these people r very different and no one can change them in this earth. In Tamil there is a saying--anbu thollai. . This is the worst thing a genuine person face almost every day. At times I feel y on earth people have so much extra time, y don't they use it for their on benefits , instead of putting others in trouble. when r we going to learn all this.
This approach is so genuine that u shudn't interfere too much and trouble them to know what is going on there. Some people r so curious , they come directly to the house and wait until we come back from our work or any emergency, especially to know , y u dint answer the calls immediately.
Life is so complicated , that we do not like to discuss very silly matters with each and every person we meet. Problems we sort it out ourselves, but others want to know , y u did in this way or that way.
If at all they r genuine in their approach no one is going to escape from them.We appreciate there interest. But these people r very different and no one can change them in this earth. In Tamil there is a saying--anbu thollai. . This is the worst thing a genuine person face almost every day. At times I feel y on earth people have so much extra time, y don't they use it for their on benefits , instead of putting others in trouble. when r we going to learn all this.
